Have you ever seen that tee shirt for writers? “Be nice or I’ll put you in my next book”? I always laughed at that, because I knew exactly what they meant. Some people annoy you so much you fantasize about killing them off slowly and painfully. Wonder if any of George R. R. Martin’s associates wound up in his death scenes…
But people don’t need to be annoying to wind up in one of my stories. I find people endlessly fascinating and often bring different people to mind when I’m writing. I’ve had two criticisms of my work that just make me shake my head and shrug. One was an online review of one of my short stories, where the reviewer remarked that the whole story was unbelievable because “people just don’t act like that”. I told them I was sorry they had never met the sweet caring people in that story, because I had.
Another criticism I received was on the beginning chapters of a novel I am working on. During a writers’ circle review where we all reviewed each others’ work, the professional writer in charge seemed to be disgusted as he flung my manuscript to the desk and announced “Nobody talks like that!”. My characters were American teens. I was astonished, because I know several teens who talk like that. But he was from a large city and had a teen who had interests far from the hobbies and interests of the teens I knew. It was interesting to see that the one person in the group who would be the real target market for the book was thrilled with the story and wanted to see more. Hope he sees it when I get it published.
Everybody looks at the world through eyes filtered by their own experiences, upbringing, and opinions. Readers tend to have broader points of view, and tend to be more open to differences in characters, but occasionally you see a distinctly narrow field of vision in reviews. If you decide to write a review of any author’s work, try to keep your own point of view in mind. Try to remember you don’t have personal knowledge of everything in the world.
I’ve met lots and lots of people, and I can see where all of them would fit into stories I’ve got in mind. I once stood behind several scientists/physicists/professors/engineers (I have no idea which they were, but the conversation was fascinating as they discussed something using words of more than five syllables.)
My aunt Marty was one of my favorite people to listen to, since she had a very interesting life. “I collect men as a hobby,” she said, explaining her multiple marriages and boyfriends. She told us her best birthday moment happened when, depressed over being alone on her 30th birthday, she wandered into a bar to drown her sorrows. When the bartender demanded her identification to prove she was old enough to drink, she was so delighted she grabbed him across the bar and kissed him.
I have a friend who has gone to a local Renaissance Fair for thirty years and became one of the characters there (a wench, often bawdy and outrageous) in a costume she made herself. She also likes to attend motorcycle rallies and paint fairy land murals on children’s nursery walls for her friends. She has a vivid personality and a sharp tongue and a loving heart.
I know several cowboys who are the strong silent type who are always willing to help and are devoted to their wives. I have met the rich, the poor, the famous, and the unknown. I know people who should be locked away in a dark room so they can finally stop hurting the people around them, and saints who make total strangers want to hug them. I have met truly eccentric folk who made me laugh, gasp, and watch them closely. I have known the depressed, the desperate, the broken, and the healed. I have laughed with and at children and dried their tears.
I love meeting people. I never know how the meeting will turn out, but I always find it interesting, whether I roll my eyes later or make a note to contact them again. Even when their opinions don’t agree with mine, they are interesting. Sometimes I get the chance to shock them out of their comfort zone, and seeing how they deal with that is intriguing. We are all characters in the Book of Life, and we are all individuals. God did a good job on us. We are interesting.
Did you ever feel a character in a story was based on you?